Peran Forgiveness dalam Proses Pemulihan Penyintas Cyber Dating Violence
Abstract
Abstract. Cyber Dating Violence (CDV) is a form of violence in romantic relationships that occurs through digital media and has increasingly become a concern among individuals in emerging adulthood. This form of violence can negatively impact survivors' psychological well-being, including increased stress, trauma, and decreased self-esteem. One of the key recovery strategies is forgiveness, which can help reduce negative emotions, rebuild self-identity, and enhance psychological well-being. This study employs a scoping review methodology to explore the factors influencing the forgiveness process in CDV survivors. The review highlights the role of forgiveness in three main aspects: positive emotional growth, self-reconstruction, and improved quality of life. Findings indicate that forgiveness is not merely about absolving the perpetrator but also a healing process that allows survivors to regain control over their lives. Through a comprehensive literature review, this study provides a deeper understanding of the dynamics of forgiveness in CDV survivors and its implications for psychological interventions and recovery policies. The findings are expected to serve as a foundation for future research and the development of more effective rehabilitation strategies for CDV survivors.
Abstrak. Cyber Dating Violence (CDV) merupakan bentuk kekerasan dalam hubungan romantis yang terjadi melalui media digital dan semakin menjadi perhatian di kalangan individu usia dewasa awal. Kekerasan ini dapat berdampak negatif terhadap kesejahteraan psikologis penyintas, termasuk peningkatan stres, trauma, dan penurunan harga diri. Salah satu strategi pemulihan yang berperan penting adalah pemaafan (forgiveness), yang dapat membantu mengurangi emosi negatif, membangun kembali identitas diri, serta meningkatkan kesejahteraan psikologis penyintas. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode scoping review untuk mengeksplorasi faktor-faktor yang memengaruhi proses pemaafan pada penyintas CDV. Kajian ini menyoroti peran pemaafan dalam tiga aspek utama, yaitu pertumbuhan emosional yang positif, rekonstruksi diri, dan peningkatan kualitas hidup. Temuan menunjukkan bahwa pemaafan bukan hanya sekadar tindakan memberi maaf kepada pelaku, tetapi juga proses pemulihan yang memungkinkan penyintas memperoleh kembali kendali atas kehidupannya. Melalui tinjauan literatur, penelitian ini memberikan pemahaman yang lebih komprehensif mengenai dinamika pemaafan pada penyintas CDV serta implikasinya terhadap intervensi psikologis dan kebijakan pemulihan. Hasil kajian ini diharapkan dapat menjadi dasar bagi penelitian lebih lanjut serta pengembangan strategi rehabilitasi yang lebih efektif bagi penyintas CDV.
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