Gambaran Rasa Percaya Suami Pada Istri
Abstract
Abstract. Long-distance marriages have become an increasingly common phenomenon due to work and economic demands that require spouses to live apart. Trust is a key factor in maintaining the harmony and continuity of long-distance marriages. This study aims to describe the level of trust husbands have in their wives in long-distance marriages. The study used a descriptive quantitative method with a population of husbands who work and have been in long-distance marriages for at least 5 years. A total of 117 respondents were selected through a convenience sampling technique. Data were measured using the Trust Scale adapted from Rempel et al. (1985), along with several questions related to ways of building trust and resolving issues with their spouse. The results showed that 50.4% of respondents had a high level of trust in their wives, while 49.6% had a low level of trust. Good communication, honesty, and confidence in the spouse were the primary ways to build trust. The majority of respondents chose direct communication as the main method for resolving problems with their spouse. This study highlights the importance of trust and communication in maintaining the stability of long-distance marriages.
Abstrak. Pernikahan jarak jauh menjadi fenomena yang semakin umum seiring dengan tuntutan pekerjaan dan ekonomi yang mengharuskan pasangan suami-istri tinggal terpisah. Kepercayaan menjadi faktor kunci dalam menjaga keharmonisan dan keberlanjutan hubungan pernikahan jarak jauh. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk menggambarkan tingkat rasa percaya suami terhadap istri dalam pernikahan jarak jauh. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode deskriptif kuantitatif dengan populasi suami yang bekerja dan menjalani pernikahan jarak jauh selama minimal 5 tahun. Sebanyak 117 responden dipilih melalui teknik convenience sampling. Data diukur menggunakan Trust Scale yang diadaptasi dari Rempel dkk. (1985), serta beberapa pertanyaan terkait cara membangun kepercayaan dan menyelesaikan masalah dengan pasangan. Hasil penelitian menunjukkan bahwa 50,4% responden memiliki tingkat kepercayaan yang tinggi terhadap istri mereka, sementara 49,6% memiliki tingkat kepercayaan yang rendah. Komunikasi yang baik, kejujuran, dan keyakinan terhadap pasangan merupakan cara utama dalam membangun kepercayaan. Mayoritas responden memilih komunikasi langsung sebagai cara utama dalam menyelesaikan masalah dengan pasangan. Penelitian ini menegaskan pentingnya kepercayaan dan komunikasi dalam menjaga stabilitas pernikahan jarak jauh.
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