Pengaruh Ruminasi terhadap Forgiveness pada Remaja Broken Home di Kabupaten Bandung
Abstract
Abstract. The event of parental divorce has an impact on various aspects of the child: such as the child's perception, emotions, and behavior. There is a change in the way of looking, either at oneself or at parents. The presence of feelings of anger, disappointment, sadness, low self-esteem, etc., causes the child to become angry and resentful towards the parents or one of the parents. Divorce events that affect thoughts and feelings can then continue to revolve in the head (rumination), and can then affect internalizing and externalizing behaviors (Brenning et al., 2022). The purpose of this study was to determine the effect of rumination on forgiveness in broken home adolescents in Bandung Regency. This research design uses causality, and a non-experimental quantitative approach. The subjects in this study were adolescents with both biological parents experiencing divorce. The measuring instrument used is the RRS-10 which has been adapted into Indonesian by Cleopatra Yusainy (Yusainy, 2017), and the TRIM-18 measuring instrument which has been adapted into Indonesian by Iko Maidiarko (Maidiarko, 2020). The data analysis method used is simple linear regression, with a significance result of 0.000, meaning that there is an influence of rumination on forgiveness in broken home adolescents in Bandung Regency. The results of this study indicate that rumination has an influence contribution to forgiveness of 67.2%.
Abstrak. Peristiwa perceraian orang tua memiliki dampak terhadap berbagai aspek pada anak: seperti persepsi, emosi, dan perilaku anak. Terjadinya perubahan dalam cara memandang, baik pada diri sendiri atau pun pada orang tua. Hadirnya perasaan marah, kecewa, sedih, rendah diri, dan lain-lain, menyebabkan anak tersebut menjadi marah dan benci terhadap orang tua atau salah satu orang tua. Peristiwa perceraian yang memengaruhi pikiran serta perasaan itu kemudian dapat terus berputar di dalam kepala (ruminasi), dan kemudian dapat memengaruhi internalizing dan externalizing behaviors. Tujuan penelitian ini adalah untuk mengetahui pengaruh ruminasi terhadap forgiveness pada remaja broken home di Kabupaten Bandung. Desain penelitian ini menggunakan kausalitas, dan pendekatan kuantitatif non eksperimental. Subjek dalam penelitian ini adalah remaja dengan kedua orang tua kandung mengalami perceraian. Alat ukur yang digunakan adalah RRS-10 yang telah diadaptasi ke dalam Bahasa Indonesia oleh Cleopatra Yusainy (Yusainy, 2017), dan alat ukur TRIM-18 yang telah diadaptasi ke dalam Bahasa Indonesia oleh Iko Maidiarko (Maidiarko, 2020). Metode analisis data yang digunakan adalah regresi linier sederhana, dengan hasil signifikansi 0.000, artinya terdapat pengaruh ruminasi terhadap forgiveness pada remaja broken home di Kabupaten Bandung. Hasil penelitian ini menunjukan bahwa ruminasi memiliki kontribusi pengaruh terhadap forgiveness sebesar 67,2%.
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