Trauma bonding pada Korban Kekerasan dalam Pacaran
Abstract
Abstract. Dating violence is a serious phenomenon that has negative physical and psychological impacts on victims. Despite these negative consequences, many victims choose to maintain the relationship, disregarding their own well-being. This phenomenon can be explained through the concept of trauma bonding, where victims develop a strong emotional attachment to the perpetrator of violence in romantic relationships. This study aims to examine the phenomenon of trauma bonding in victims of dating violence in West Java. The research employs a descriptive study method with a quantitative approach. It is part of a larger study investigating the relationship between empathy and trauma bonding in victims of dating violence. The study sample consists of 115 respondents selected using purposive sampling techniques. The data collected indicate that the majority of respondents exhibit high levels of trauma bonding, suggesting a strong emotional attachment between the victims and the perpetrators of dating violence.
Abstrak. Kekerasan dalam pacaran merupakan fenomena serius yang menimbulkan dampak negatif baik secara fisik maupun psikologis bagi korban. Meski berdampak negatif, banyak korban kekerasan justru memilih mempertahankan hubungan tanpa mempedulikan dirinya sendiri. Fenomena ini dapat dijelaskan dengan konsep trauma bonding, dimana korban mengembangkan ikatan emosional yang kuat dengan pelaku kekerasan dalam hubungan romantis. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk melihat fenomena trauma bonding pada korban kekerasan dalam pacaran di Jawa Barat. Penelitian ini menggunakan metode studi deskriptif dengan menggunakan pendekatan kuantitatif. Penelitian ini merupakan bagian dari penelitian lain yang meneliti mengenai hubungan antara empati dan trauma bonding pada korban kekerasan dalam pacaran. Sampel penelitian terdiri dari 115 responden, yang dipilih menggunakan teknik purposive sampling. Data yang diperoleh menunjukkan bahwa mayoritas responden menunjukkan tingkat trauma bonding tinggi yang mengindikasikan adanya keterikatan emosional yang kuat antara korban dengan pelaku kekerasan dalam pacaran.
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