Pengaruh Trust terhadap Kepuasan Pernikahan
Abstract
Abstract. One way to find a partner is by utilizing the internet, namely through the use of online dating applications. These applications are still relatively uncommon for building serious relationships such as marriage. This is due to the uncertain nature of online dating applications and the existence of negative stereotypes resulting from numerous cases originating from online dating applications. However, in reality, there are many individuals who have successfully progressed to marriage and even opted for long-distance marriages. Trust is the primary foundation for maintaining a long-distance marriage. This study aims to examine the extent to which trust can influence marital satisfaction in individuals who met their partners through online dating applications and are currently in long-distance marriages. The study involved 155 individuals aged 20-40 years. The trust measurement used was the Trust Scale developed by Rempel et al. (1985) and adapted by Risandy (2018), while marital satisfaction utilized the ENRICH Marital Satisfaction Scale developed by Fowers & Olson (1989) and adapted by Nishfiyaningsih (2009). Convenience sampling was employed as the sampling technique, and data analysis utilized simple linear regression. Based on the research results, the hypothesis was accepted, indicating a significant influence of trust on marital satisfaction by 63.2%. This implies that trust can affect the level of marital satisfaction in individuals currently undergoing long-distance marriages who initially met their partners through online dating applications.
Abstrak. Salah satu cara untuk mendapatkan pasangan adalah dengan memanfaatkan internet, yaitu dengan menggunakan aplikasi kencan online. Aplikasi ini masih terbilang jarang digunakan untuk membangun hubungan serius seperti pernikahan. Hal ini disebabkan sifat aplikasi kencan online yang tidak pasti dan adanya stereotype buruk yang disebabkan banyaknya kasus yang berasal dari aplikasi kencan online. Namun pada kenyataannya, tidak sedikit individu yang berhasil melanjutkan pertemanannya ke jenjang pernikahan bahkan memilih untuk menjalani pernikahan jarak jauh. Trust merupakan landasan utama untuk menjalani pernikahan jarak jauh. Penelitian ini bertujuan untuk melihat pengaruh trust terhadap kepuasan pernikahan pada individu yang bertemu pasangannya melalui aplikasi kencan online dan sekarang menjalani pernikahan jarak jauh. Penelitian ini melibatkan sebanyak 155 individu berusia 20-40 tahun. Alat ukur trust yang digunakan adalah Trust Scale yang dikembangkan oleh Rempel et al. (1985) dan diadaptasi oleh Risandy (2018), sedangkan kepuasan pernikahan menggunakan ENRICH Marital Satisfaction Scale yang dikembangkan oleh Fowers & Olson (1989) yang sudah diadaptasi oleh Nishfiyaningsih (2009). Teknik sampling yang digunakan adalah convenience sampling dan analisis data menggunakan regresi linear sederhana. Berdasarkan hasil penelitian, hipotesis diterima yaitu terdapat pengaruh signifikan pada trust terhadap kepuasan pernikahan sebesar 63,2%, artinya trust dapat mempengaruhi tingkat kepuasan pernikahan pada individu yang sedang menjalani pernikahan jarak jauh yang pertemuan awal dengan pasangannya melalui aplikasi kencan online.
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